Daddy Time: Must Knows For New Dads

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Moms aren’t alone in the parenting world. Dads play a vital role in giving new moms a hand, and in the development of their babies. More often than not, the new mom is at home with the baby while the dad is at work. But even after coming home from a long day at the office, dad can help out by doing some of these simple, yet invaluable, things.

Spending Quality Time With The Baby. Mom has just spent the entire day with the little guy, now it’s daddy’s turn. Even if it’s only for half an hour, the mother can nap, or put her feet up and relax while the father entertains or feeds the baby. This is also a time to bond and share a special relationship. Chances are the father has been thinking of the baby all day and can’t wait to see him.

Remembering Mom, Too! When the father gets home, he may go straight for the baby. But mom also needs a little extra attention. Moms, especially new moms, need to be appreciated for all the hard work they do every day with the baby. Sometimes all it takes is a hug and kiss, and a simple thank you to lift a mom’s spirits.

Doing Household Chores. Something as simple as loading the dishwasher after dinner will make a mom’s life so much easier. Dads can also do laundry duty—load up the washer or fold clothes while watching TV. After a whole day of cleaning and caring for the baby, moms appreciate help with the mundane chores around the home.

Running Errands. The proud new daddy can run errands or pick up necessities on his way home from work. Tending to a new baby can make it hard for moms to get out of the house and pick up essentials. A quick stop at the drugstore or grocery store can make a huge difference.

Changing Diapers Or Bathing. Dads can give the baby a bath while mom rests. Baths are enjoyable for babies and can be fun for dad, too, since he gets to nurture the baby. Changing a diaper may not be as much fun, but think of how many diapers mom has changed all day!

Talking And Singing To The Baby. Talking and singing helps the baby recognize the father’s voice. Plus babies learn how to speak from listening to their parents talk. They will eventually try to mimic the sounds and words. It’s also a good bonding experience for dad to hold and cuddle the baby while singing, especially if the baby is fussy.

If The Mother Is Breastfeeding, Making Sure She Gets Rest. Breastfeeding can be tiring. Fathers can bring the baby to the mom when it’s feeding time, even in the middle of the night. Anything to save the mother time and energy helps. If not breastfeeding, dad can take over bottle-feeding duties.

Encouraging The Mom To Accept Help. While a new mother may not want people around all the time, she will appreciate her mother-in-law picking up groceries, or looking after the little one while she takes a shower or nap.

Cooking Dinner. A good meal can do wonders for both energy and relaxation, and new dads can help out by cooking a hearty breakfast or dinner. Just knowing that she doesn’t have to cook will help a mom feel at ease and the warm food will fuel her body.

Being Understanding. A new mom may need time to think about a sexual relationship again. Her body has changed since giving birth. Plus, as a couple, you hardly have time to talk about your day let alone think about sex! Couples may need to re-think how and when to get intimate. Give it time and patience.

Cleaning Up The Toys Or Nursery. Just picking up a few things will not only help out a new mom, but will make things easier for a new dad too, because it gives him the chance to know where everything is kept.

Packing The Diaper Bag. If there are plans to go out, the father can pack the diaper bag and make sure all the necessities are at hand. It will be one less thing mom has to deal with before heading out the door.

Talking To Her. Dads may not do everything right all the time or have a clue how to do certain baby-related things. Communication is the best way to overcome these small obstacles. Don’t forget: You are each other’s best support.